This post is referring to people who have had a change of heart through faith in Christ. It is not a self-help article.
Nothing in the New Testament lifestyle is obnoxious to civil, moral, honest people. The Christian standard is set by God. If a person has a problem with New Testament morality, then that person has a problem with God.
Those who disagree with the New Testament standards of life are unwilling to submit to the rightful Ruler of the universe. They have set themselves as judges of God and prefer a level of lawlessness and possibly perversion instead of godly living.
If everyone would align with the New Testament standards, the world would be better. There would be no human negativity in society if everyone lived in submission to the Lordship of Christ. This will not happen in this wicked world, but the redeemed of the Lord are not waiting for Christ to become popular with the world. Those who know Him and love Him are living in harmony with God already, and they will be misunderstood, maligned, hated and despised by other people.
Being a Bible Christian is not simply a matter of keeping a moral code. Being a Bible Christian is a miraculous transformation in a human life. It is loving God above all else. Love and trust are active and predominant in those who obey Him and please Him.
Those who want to have their own way will not know peace, love, and joy. If they never believe and receive the message of salvation, they will never enter into the life of God and godliness.